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Issue 38: When an Employee Believes You’re the Enemy

Issue 38

When an employee believes leadership is “out to get them,” trust erodes quickly—and conversations become emotionally charged. In this issue of Espresso & Empathy, Anita Martin explores how leaders can navigate these moments with empathy, curiosity, and integrity. By focusing on understanding perception, communicating with transparency, and staying grounded in fairness, leaders can lower defensiveness and rebuild trust over time. Empathy doesn’t mean backing down—it means leading through tension with clarity, dignity, and steadiness.

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Issue 37: When Empathy Gets Taken Advantage Of

Issue 37

Empathy is a powerful leadership strength—but without boundaries, it can quietly turn into burnout, inconsistency, and frustration. In this issue of Espresso & Empathy, Anita Martin explores what happens when compassion crosses into complacency and how leaders can protect both empathy and accountability. By setting clear expectations and maintaining consistency, leaders preserve trust, fairness, and their own capacity to lead with care. True empathy isn’t permissive—it’s intentional, balanced, and grounded in clarity.

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Issue 36: Discipline with Heart

Issue 36

Empathy and discipline are often seen as opposites—but effective leaders know they work best together. In this issue of Espresso & Empathy, Anita Martin explores how empathy and accountability can coexist to build trust, protect fairness, and strengthen workplace culture. True empathy isn’t about avoiding hard conversations; it’s about approaching them with clarity, respect, and care. When discipline is delivered with empathy, leaders create environments where people can grow, improve, and feel valued—even in difficult moments.

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Issue 35: Today’s Brew: What Empathy Is—and What It Isn’t

Issue 35

Empathy is often praised in leadership—and just as often misunderstood. In this issue of Espresso & Empathy, Anita Martin explores what empathy truly looks like in action, why it’s frequently mistaken for sympathy or weakness, and how it strengthens leadership rather than softening standards. When practiced with intention, empathy becomes a powerful leadership muscle—one that builds trust, presence, and integrity in every interaction.

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Issue 34: Today’s Brew: Empathy—It’s Not Just for Work

Issue 34

Empathy isn’t something leaders switch on at work and set aside at home—it’s a life skill that shapes how we connect everywhere. In this issue of Espresso & Empathy, we explore how strengthening empathy improves not only leadership effectiveness, but also personal relationships, communication, and resilience. From listening without judgment to building trust across every part of life, this issue reminds us that empathy isn’t just a workplace strategy—it’s the foundation of meaningful human connection.

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Issue 33: Today’s Brew: When HR Isn’t a Safe Place—Rebuilding Trust in the System That’s Meant to Protect You

Issue 33

HR is meant to be a place of support and protection—but for many employees, it no longer feels safe. In this issue of Espresso & Empathy, we explore what happens when trust in HR breaks and why silence often feels safer than speaking up. From breached confidentiality to fear of retaliation, this issue examines the real impact of lost trust and why it matters for every organization. We also introduce an upcoming Martin and Foster Consulting service designed to provide individuals with confidential, independent HR guidance when going to internal HR doesn’t feel like a safe option. Because when trust erodes, leadership has a responsibility to rebuild it.

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Issue 32: Today’s Brew: One-on-Ones That Matter – Why Consistent Conversations Build Trust and Performance

Issue 32

One-on-one conversations aren’t interruptions to leadership—they are leadership. In this issue of Espresso & Empathy, we explore why meaningful one-on-ones are essential to trust, engagement, and culture. When treated as more than task updates, these conversations become a powerful tool for connection and clarity. This issue examines the difference between transactional check-ins and intentional dialogue, the impact of consistency on trust, and includes a leadership self-audit to help leaders evaluate how they’re truly showing up. Because when leaders show up consistently, people stop guessing—and start trusting.

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Issue 31: Today’s Brew: The Conversation You’re Avoiding Is Costing You

Issue 31

The conversations leaders avoid don’t go away—they compound. In this issue of Espresso & Empathy, we explore why leaders sidestep difficult conversations and the real cost that avoidance carries for trust, credibility, and culture. Silence is never neutral. This issue breaks down how to approach tough conversations with empathy and clarity, and includes a leadership self-audit to help leaders reflect on their own avoidance patterns. Because difficult conversations don’t break trust—avoiding them does.

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Issue 30: Today’s Brew: Leading with Empathy Through Seasonal Stress

Issue 30

As the seasons shift, so do the stressors many employees carry into the workplace. Shorter days, heavier workloads, holiday pressures, and isolation often show up as disengagement—but they’re frequently signs of seasonal stress, not lack of motivation. In this issue of Espresso & Empathy, we explore how emotionally intelligent leaders can recognize these patterns, respond with empathy, and support their teams without lowering expectations. This issue offers practical guidance for balancing compassion with accountability and includes a leadership self-audit to reflect on how you show up when your team needs it most.

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Issue 29: Today’s Brew: When Fear of Change Keeps People Stuck in Miserable Jobs

Issue 29

Staying in a miserable job isn’t loyalty—it’s survival. In this issue of Espresso & Empathy, we explore why employees remain in roles that drain them and the quiet cost this has on trust, engagement, and culture. Fear of change, financial pressure, and diminished confidence often keep people stuck, but silence should never be mistaken for satisfaction. This issue examines how disengagement spreads, why tenure doesn’t equal commitment, and how empathetic leaders can normalize growth conversations that help people thrive—whether their future is inside the organization or beyond it.

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